Monday, February 23, 2009

LOVE

LOVE * Love: - Everyone can be up to the level of love, but already owned in various relations, but like anything else, to be developed up to this place, "it can be cultivated in the land of desolate Bzorh non-fertile." - So what is love? Love - definition of love - The difference between admiration and love - Degrees of love - Chemical changes that occur in the body - What is the member in charge of the passion of love - Other cases, emotional - They love - How to access the myth of true love - How attracted you to the other party - The basics for the success of love in various relationships - Out of the celebration of Valentine's Day - Definition of love: Love is the feelings of closeness and achieve satisfaction and the internal conflict between human beings, or to enjoy the present with the other party. And also describes the feelings of love, of passion .. Act for which it has rights, but the response of the kind of sympathy towards others (or by one another). This passion is rooted in all cultures, so the feature is described as a human .. Or feature that makes the individual human being human, there is reason or self-love - the love of work - the body of love - love of nature - the food of love - love of money - the love of learning - Love Force - Shahwani love - love of animals and education - respect for the love of others. Abstract concept of love and understand its meaning from experience and not through the interpretation of verbal - The difference between admiration and love: Impressive is the stage prior to the paving of love, or love, so find a love that is linked to two stages when it is in the beginning called "impressive" and then came the second phase, which is shifting to the impressive and we know what we call "love" or admiration, which is surrounded by strong emotion. Valiajab generated from continuing to deal with others and with things that surround us also, and then develop feelings of love towards the person who admire .. It is not wrong or sin in the man was nothing if absorbed in admiration or love, but the error occurs when there is a deviation of leaves, and described the transformation of the deviation from the "other" to "self", which is called the "lust for self-possession" or quite simply, selfishness is here sound the death knell of error in the relationship of humanity. - Degrees of love: Since the mixed feelings of love, such as a sense of importance, acceptance, understanding and demonstrating .. Attention to the need for other non-self, and any other positive feelings experienced two or more, so there are different feelings of love for each case, commensurate with the emotional plague is when a person experience. Love triangle theory: weighing the degree of love or by the most accurate in the sense of the interrelationships among the human race, three pints: familiarity - Passion - Commitment A - the friendship or admiration: The first degree of love and contains one element of the triangle of love and intimacy that does not mean that something trivial or unimportant, but that leads to love. The familiarity and closeness likened to be closer to real friendship, which is where the individual type of Rabat, warmth and approaching the other person .. But there is no passion or severe long-term commitment. B - infatuation: It consists of passion only a so-called "love at first glance," but without convergence or commitment can disappear suddenly. Fri - Love hollow: There is convergence or emotion but a commitment only. The "power of love sometimes (ie, deteriorate) to the hollow of this type, is this kind of arranged marriages, where the commitment to start the relationship but does not require the continuation of this form. D - romantic love: Here merge familiarity and passion are the forces (ie, emotional attachment occurs), as in the impressive stage and during the physical link between the sexual desire of both parties. E - Love Alrvaqy: Is the familiarity and commitment, this type of love marriages, which is in older age, where there is no conventional sense of passion and turn it attaches to the other party and the forces such as the relationship that exists between friends, between family members. And - foolish love: When the passion or commitment, but not near or in the familiarity of marriage is commitment, which is great catalyst of passion without a consistent effect of familiarity. G - Love inclusive disjunction (consumer): Combining the three elements in the triangle of love, love is the most complete and represents the ideal relationship that people strive to reach it .. And the little up. Maintain this kind of love more difficult to achieve, and must be expressed that can be subjected to the courtyard as well. - Physiological changes (chemical) that take place in the body: - Energy flow in the body. - Widening Hdguety eye. - Increased heart palpitations. - Redness of the face and chest. - Increase the secretion of sweat. - Increased oil gland secretions of the hair, making it more bright. - The desire to follow a healthy eating habits and to maintain appropriate weight. - Easy on the conviction Dimension bad habits such as smoking. - Where love is established in humans? Different mechanisms of romantic attraction and sexual attraction Taatmizaan mechanisms in humans, but they share a passion and affinity for another of the party .. And not as some think that the heart is the center of love, is merely a member of Vakulb affected nerve, which signals the brain sends to him in addition to the hormones that exist. Valmk is the center of love, has been observed in a study by British researcher, "Bartels," the 17 men and a woman in love and offered them a two-time image and the beloved image of the other time, friend, and through examination of the brain MRI at presentation of each picture - that there is flow Ghazir bloody essential oxygen to the areas responsible for the positive feelings .. And the flow of a simple looking at the picture of a friend. The scientists linked the cases to the incidence of emotional romantic Bifraz "dopamine" and "Nuribernfrin," which shows the details of their disguised pleasure in this new relationship. - The different feelings associated with love: These feelings are about love, but it is possible that the person before, during or after Maisth of the situation is not emotional love, which is not described the relationship between these feelings of love, but very simple definitions to understand the differences between them. Acceptance anger happiness expectation fatigue repugnant envy Hope the fear of sin suffering remorse frustration surprise hatred 1 - Admission: Admission is described by this statement, "the suffering of life, I invite people to accept this suffering, to understand and are part of life." To understand the acceptance speech comes countermeasures resistance, Acceptance of the position without experience and there was no intention to change it. 2 - happiness: the emotional situation, which is where the fun and enjoy the individual, happiness is a mixture of joy and love and extroversion. The idea of happiness is not linked to a particular but rather to succeed in life. 3 - anger: a response to the hostile feeling of stress, or some kind of motivation to respond countermeasures that may lead to violence, extreme anger. And patterns of anger, the medium was the lack of taste or lack of arousal or enjoyment of, and anger is the dominant element in the emotional response to the growing threat, where the incidence of produce cortisol and adrenaline high rates, which in turn is reflected on the behavior state of stress increased and the tendency to aggression. Iharalinsan was angry for four reasons: first, through threats, such as recognizing the conflict, and the second through the abstract concepts such as injustice, and the third is the human exposure to situations such as physical exhaustion or hunger, or sexual frustration or the use of specific drugs and the fourth cause hormonal changes, such as the age of menopause, childbirth. There are benefits of anger: the provision of self-protection and the other for the same freedom from the pressures to which man is exposed in different positions. 4 - expected: the fusing of the feelings of happiness, waiting at the elicitation event. 5 - boredom or fatigue: suffering from a lack of things beloved of the people both at the vision .. To hear or do. Or rights in the event of Allaaml mood, have many reasons for the occurrence of fatigue such as the presence of large areas of leisure, or may come to the accompanying mental illnesses such as depression or physical illness. 6 - disgust: disgust is divided into physical and explains why, after cleaning the concrete, and the disgusting moral and emotional situation here relates to certain behavior. 7 - envy: the persons, not objects, and translate the desire to possess the characteristics and capabilities of people and all that is related to the qualities of good offices. 8 - fear: a feeling that there was a risk, as they are called ball and a lack of love for things such as fear of the dark or fear of ghosts. 9 - sin: sin or guilt were akin to each other, felt the feelings of the individual's thinking or behavior is morally wrong, or thinks it is. Human suffering and a sense of guilt when an internal struggle to do something it should not do (as in his belief), or as he called the "Freud" The conflict between the ego (in the desires of Ahlgrezip) and the superego, and this feeling is generated in humans be guided by the conscience. 10 - hope: faith in the possibility of reaching a positive outcome related to events experienced by the individual in his life, even though there was evidence of these negative results. Bored and other terms related to several different but at the same time: A - Belief: Faith is different from the hope that the first word has religious connotations and the other has significant emotional. B - optimism: The point of view of positive mental and cognitive level, and the hope of faith refers to positive emotional level. And optimism to be reasonable based on facts or that has no contact with reality. C - a false hope: Hu, who is on the fantasy (all done in the fanciful) or impossible to achieve. D - positive thinking: Is the kind of remedial steps are used in psychology in order to reverse the concept of pessimism. 11 - remorse: a sense of the sadness, guilt or shame, and this feeling comes after the person wishes to work with and then after failing to do. 12 - frustration: the situation of the individual and the mood is different from the medical diagnosis of depression, the person tends to grief frustrating for less than two weeks, and features a sense of sadness, loss, social transformation. It is this sense of motivation to change the domicile, marriage, separation, divorce, failure of a particular relationship, the job, graduation ... Etc.. 13 - suffering: the pain and not related to happiness, and any negative emotional shift may be described as suffering psychological or physical pain when the human disease. 14 surprise: a feeling of something unexpected. 15 - hatred: the gathering of the wishes of hostility, lack of taste, to avoid someone or something, a sense of wanting to get rid of anything. The adoption of the experience of hatred for both the fear of something or of being subjected to injustice of a negative experience when dealing, and this is incompatible, for the word love, which possesses all of these feelings. - They love: If the person to understand what love and relationships and how to employ, any individual can benefit from the psychology of love and turning it into a relationship .. This relationship in turn transformed into a successful relationship because it is a combination of the wonderful feelings and multimedia. This situation has been emotional, "and invoke the object" if a person does not know what to do or do not understand the meaning of the last resort or when the individual repeated the question about what advice is the love he wants to make it. - How to access the myth of true love: "Show interest in words and not really" Interest and attention .. Then attention is on the list of priorities and requirements, and demonstrate acts of love, however, saying the words. The first is required and the other is not desirable, either orally or in writing in the statement, the statement that the love could put pressure on a person because he does not know what he wants in the future, or even if he knew he sets for himself the burden of implementation .. The other party Vciecar obligation which requires him to swap the same sentiments, so in the sense of freedom and the adherence of the final result of non-attraction to the other party, because the structure of the human race attitudes, which tend to have achieved happiness and pleasure and not pressure. The element of the conviction is not imposed with the sense of commitment, love and a sense of when it occurs (represented by the behavior), there will be a reaction automatically love the other party. - How do you attract the other party: The steps of love, understanding, and as human beings or we are living organisms have been frustrated for a lack of success in the consolidation of our relations to others or to win their hearts and all that the person is required to know how to stimulate the human heart with something to act calm and patience as well. A - remissness positive: love is the kind of complacency positive if you want to win the love of the people Links to marriage and love, friendship, or any of the multiple types of relationships, which extends within the framework of family relationships also .. Must meet the emotional needs of the other party relying on you. This requires you to hundreds of hours of listening when the other party to talk to you while you remain silent when listening to your side most of the time. B - a positive image of the personality: a person is attractive, which comprises a positive image in the eyes of others to self-confidence, so the resistance to feelings of self-stability and volatility of the elements of attraction is the people you C - research into the causes of the failure of different relationships. - The success of the basics of love in relationships: - Enjoy the company of the other party and to live with. - Dialogue, dialogue Talmaojd and everything is possible to overcome it if a problem or desire to be accessible. - Not thinking about the duration of this relationship. - The right understanding of the relationship, it is assigned to change the figures, but rather to understand each other more close. - Show of love over time, such as the occasion differently. - Support for the feelings of your partner, listen to any relationship, the relationship is very important even if you think what has been mandated to say to you or hear him. - Friendship to any and every relationship is absolutely vital, but is based, with the friendship developed trust and respect and thus generate impressive, and once that is achieved is impressive, which is an extension of love of friendship. - Available when needed. - Respect for differences of views, do not expect the other party to consider issues or actions, as do you, in the persons of different origins in Taballa in the way of thinking .. Respect for differences in views and solve difficult situations. - Avoid lying, if the noble goal Ktjunb alienating the other party or undermine the relationship between the two of you, Falczb which leads to destabilize the relationship and loss. - Note to deal with parents, will Fsharikk Iemlk the same manner as her parents .. If respect is the dominant feature you also be given to this feature if it was negative, you also will be reflected. - Emotion, is the primary basis for the success of the various love relationships are by-one in the relationship, such as: proximity - Contact - Sex ... Etc., and develop these relations subsidiary instinct requirement (the need for each other), if the availability of money and companionship, friendship and the house and the prestigious post in the marriage relationship, for example, without emotion Everything that will not work.

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